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Jag måste börja med att erkänna att jag nog är världens sämsta bloggare...så fort det tar emot lite, blir lite för mycket att göra och så, så är bloggen det första jag lägger åt sidan. Förra gången fick den dö helt och hållet, men nu har den bara legat i dvala...ganska länge...jag får väl som vanligt be mina trogna läsare om ursäkt...igen...
Jag började ju på ett projekt innan jag la ner...som handlade om nätbedragare, och då menar jag i första hand bedragare av typen sol & vår. Inte för att jag har så mycket att bli sol & vårad på, men jag tyckte att det var ett kul område att titta lite närmare på eftersom jag har träffat på några mindre snygga fiskar i nätstimmet.

Ibland är deras syfte så uppenbart att det är skrattretande men ibland så är det lite mer försåtligt Jag ska börja med att berätta om två personer som jag har haft personlig kontakt med. Båda har kontaktat mig på nätet, den ene i "romantiska" syften och den andre sa att han ville komma i kontakt med svenskar eftersom han snart skulle flytta till Sverige.

Jag får dessutom nästan varje vecka konstiga brev från personer som vill placera pengar säkert och undrar om jag vill hjälpa dem genom att ställa mitt bankkonto till förfogande. Är det bara jag som ser så fruktansvärt naiv och godtrogen ut som råkar ut för detta eller???

Den tredje kategorin som jag ska berätta om är ett fenomen som har dykt upp ganska nyligen, som jag inte kan kalla något annat än en sorts nätprostitution, och här handlar det om vanliga svenska killar som erbjuder sina tjänster via mail.

Idag startar jag med berättelsen om Nigel som egentligen heter något annat typiskt engelskt (haha..det här låter poffsigt värre eller hur?). Han kontaktade mig på min profil på facebook. Han skickade ett mail som var väldigt smörigt men som också på nåt sätt väckte misstankar. Jag kan också säga att han hade en bild på sin användare och att han såg väldigt bra ut, ja han var till och med "skitsnygg". Jag lägger inte ut bilden här men om någon vill se den (och andra bilder som han skickade senare) så kan jag maila dem. Det kan ju finnas någon annan som har blivit kontaktad av samma kille. Här är det första mailet:

Mail till mig v. 3 2009

Hello! Sweetie ,

You are a very beautiful woman. Let me tell you a little about myself. I'lives in London, I have been single for the past 3yrs now i am a widower. My wife died of breastcancer.  I also have a daughter who is 6yrs old and she's my only child. I enjoy my work alot which keeps me busy all the time and make me travel aound the world. I am an international businessman specialising in jewelry. I registered with this page just few hours before i contacted you. All i want now is Someone who can be comfortable at an important public function but has no problem getting sand between her toes at the beach! Sure enough of herself to open herself to loving and caring about that special man in her life. Intelligent, funny, honest and responsible. A woman who can communicate what she desires and has the ability to listen. Someone who is positive and believes that every day holds something amazing.

The ability to share her heart, her mind .I want to share my life with someone, and it won't be as a playmate. You need to be ready to make a commitment if the relationship matures. I am a very passionate man, and I need a passionate woman to be my partner. Someone who is romantic, and thoughtful. I like touching and being touched. Caressing and being held or just holding hands while watching a movie or sitting on the sofa. she should see sex as something to be enjoyed by both of us. And hopefully not play games with that part of the relationship. I am not into any machoistic games. No woman had ever captured my attention so fully.
I want you to write direct to my private email address: HAR RADERAT DEN and also add me to your messenger list for chatting so that we can start better.

I hope to hear from you soon. Wishing you a lovely and a blissful day...

I Care, NIGEL (namnet ändrat)

Jag vet inte om det beror på kulturella skillnader, men jag reagerar starkt negativt på den här typen av brev som jag uppfattar som väldigt smöriga och överdrivna...det känns som om nästa steg vore ett giftermål ungefär...jaja, eftersom det känndes lite sisådär så googlade jag namnet tillsammans med ordet "scammer" och vips fick jag träffar. Han var till och med på bild på flera sidor, fast i en något yngra upplaga an mannen på min bild.

Det här är delar av uppgifter om honom som jag träffade på vid den första googelsökningen:

XXXX XXXX is a scammer. He has changed his id to [email protected]. Claims to be a businessman from Bostwick FL on contract work in Nigeria with 12 year old son Mike. I first met him on Myspace. Talked with him for approx. 2 months. Says he is madly in love and will relocate to marrry and start family. Now at Christmas time and ready to leave Nigeria he starts with the request for money. $3,000.00 then $1,500.00, asked me to open a HELOC so he could make a large deposit into , my account. Asked me for opening od visa or mastercard  accounts and give him numbers, He will ask you to sell your belongings etc... all in what he sets up in the beginning as 'risk for love' He claims to work closely with his clearing agent Ifayin Nicholas. Telephone number using is 0112347030938761 Scammer!

XXXXXXX XXXXXXX Meet him on singlesnet.com as username of Angelsheart, but he said his name is Josef or Joseph Ballack. Uses [email protected] and [email protected]. Has two kids Romaric (Rommy) 9 yrs old and Alison 7 yrs old, which are his brothers and he is raising them. His brother and his wife died in a car accident. He was married but she died of cancer. The kids are w/his mother, he has a sister that lives in London, she just had a baby. He said he lived in Wichita KS, but is in Ikeja Lagos, Nigeria. I've sent him money, how stupid am I. He said he wanted to relocate to my area and marry me. He has sent me another picture of himself and pictures of the kids. He said he is from Munich Germany . I also found out that he uses: Truelove212, [email protected], Germanhunk9, XXXX XXXXX and Andrew Johnson.He likes to send you poems and is a very sweet talker. Please becareful when he contacts you.

Jag hittade också detta brev udertecknat av honom...

Dear Sir,

I will like to begin by way of introduction. My name is XXXXX XXXXX , a native of Harare, 

Zimbabwe, and a senior employee of the Department of Minerals and Development in Zimbabwe currently 

here in Madrid, Spain on a course.

I am writing this letter to solicit your co-operation in order to redeem an investment interest 

currently held under trust with the Department of Minerals and Development of Zimbabwe. The said 

investment now valued at USD$35.5m (Thirty-five million, five hundred thousand United States 

Dollars), was originally owned by one late MOHAMED KAMAL YASSER, (a miner/government contractor) 

and leased to the Department in 1991. (He leased his mining rights at his mining sites to the 

Ministry), unfortunately Mohamed Kamal Yasser was a victim of Egyptian plane crash, airline flight 

990   (www.cnn.com/us/9911/02/egyptair990.list/index.html)

Since the maturity of this lease in September 2001, several attempts have been made without success 

to contact his next of Kin or any of his close relatives, in whose favor the investment cash value 

can be paid.

As at this moment, the funds have been marked unclaimed, and they are about to be transferred to 

government coffers.

My partner who is the Account's Director in the same Ministry, and two other colleagues, have 

initiated the process of filing a claim for this money, with the hope of having funds transferred 

Overseas. My partners intend to file a claim for this money from the Department of Mineral and 

Development, indicating that you were appointed by MOHAMED KAMAL YASSER to be the beneficiary of 

this fund. When the claim is approved, you as the beneficiary will be paid the sum of $35.5mUSD 

(thirty five million, five hundred thousand United States dollars)

The money will be paid directly to any bank of your choice, you have the responsibility to ensure 

that my partners and I receive 70% of the money while you keep the remaining 25% for your 

assistance, the remaining 5% will be for any incidental expenses.

I want to assure you that my partners are in a position to make the payment of this claim possible, 

provided you can give us very strong guarantee that our share will be well secured, and that you 

will not take advantage of our position.

   Be assured that there is absolutely nothing to worry about in view of this claim. It is 

perfectly safe with no risk involved, and it is not subject to any inquiry, since my partners will 

be handling the claim directly in Zimbabwe, Africa, on your behalf.

I do hope my proposal is acceptable to you. Please acknowledge the receipt of this letter, so that 

I can provide you with more clarification about the claim and how we intend to make this deal 

beneficial to everyone involved. Please reach me at the above mentioned email address.

Your confidential telephone and fax numbers should also be included in your reply.

 Sincerely yours,

 Mr. XXXXX XXXXX